Tuesday's 10 truths

Tuesday's 10 Truths

1. I often wonder if we have a baby together if it would complete such a blended family. 
2. Sometimes I want to call the ex wife and just yell at her for the things she doesn't do for the kids
3. Somedays...I wish I hadn't dove head first into this marriage and blending of families 
4. I often regret quitting school to deal with my bonus son's medical issues, I knew she'd eventually stop me from doing it.
5. I hate that family members can't see how offensive it is to me to see her call them mom, dad, sis...ect
6. I regret not having more open communication with my ex after the divorce
7. I regret giving my kids reality checks about their dad...I think they deserve to know the truth but I could of done it in a more responsible manner.
8. My husband and I have been each other's best friend, confidant and attraction for years...we've just always kept it private.
9. I have been hurt many times by my husband non intervention of his ex wife's actions.
10. I am probably the strongest woman I know... and yet I get weak the second my husband steps foot in front of me... like a kid that needs protecting.

The Wifey

Beginnings of a blog

       I am a mom and bonus mom to some very wonderful children. With the blending of kids and lives comes a blending of families, lives and lines blur majorly. I wish that I could give some of you confidence that it is easy, I've seen people say it is, I can give you that. I can tell you about my thoughts, stresses and my results. I can tell you the things I hear amongst our kids and the things I wish had never been said. I'm not perfect.. I don't know any mom that does everything perfect. I do know there is a line, a line that as a bonus mom/ wifey you wish the former wife would not cross. I know there is a line that as a mom and a former wife you wish the new girlfriend/ wife wouldn't cross. All these shady blurred lines bring me to this blog. The vents needed over a ex husband that won't step his game up and a ex wife that needs a reality check sometimes. This is my space to rant and vent, to feel get it out without truly hurting anyone. With that being said.. I look forward to comments and rant backs, getting to know my followers and knowing that maybe I'm not as alone in this blending of  families as I feel I am. This is my life....on a blog...in a virtual world....knowing even if someones stumbles on it...they now know just how insane they drive me and I don't care. It is me.....



The Wifey